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Jan 10

Happy New Year!

Helen and I spent a quiet evening in our neighborhood. We ate a delicious dinner at Memphis Taproom — short ribs on a seafood grits bed — and I had a flight of Gift of the Magi, Port Santa’s Little Helper, and Nøgne Ø’s God Jul. The beer was amazing as well. Our second New Year’s Eve dinner was just as great as our first.

We can’t say enough how much we love that place and the people who work there. It’s like an extension of our living room and kitchen. It’s our Cheers. We get great service, great food, and great beer. It’s hard to believe it’s been open less than two years. It feels like it’s been there forever.

We spent the rest of the evening at home, watching movies, drinking beer, waiting for Dick Clark and Ryan Seacrest to count down to the New Year. It’s a minor miracle that Helen and I were able to stay awake to see the ball drop. Charlie’s usually waking us by 4:30 in the morning!

The start of 2010 was much more comfortable than where we found ourselves on Y2K. As Helen and I sat on the couch, watching television, I couldn’t help but think how lost we were last year after we boarded the R5 in the wrong direction, jumped off at Wayne Junction, and found ourselves stranded there until Helen’s aunt and uncle picked us up. We didn’t even have cellphones back then!

To add insult to injury, we ended up there after going to see G. Love at the Electric Factory. No further comment necessary.

As we start 2010, we’re thankful for our friends and family who’ve been there for us all along. We feel very lucky in these trying times. Here’s to a great 2010 and the decade ahead!


23
Dec 09

What I’m Thankful for This Christmas



Charlie and Helen Xmas 09, originally uploaded by J T. Ramsay.

I think this picture says it all, don’t you?


27
Nov 09

I Ran My 2nd Philadelphia Marathon

Want a marathon pro tip? Have a race plan. It’s the only way you’re going to live to tell the tale.

You know what I did wrong this year? I didn’t have a race plan. Unlike last year, the world intervened, making it harder for me to train at the level I did in 2008. It rained frequently and hard. I had a beautiful baby boy. I came down with a bad head cold at the end of October.  Yes, I did the best I could considering the circumstances, but when I caught a cold after a few too many runs in the October rain combined with a baby who’s just learning to sleep on his own, marathon training kind of goes out the window.

What was the outcome? A completely respectable 3:35 marathon. I didn’t set the world ablaze like I did last year when I ran a heartbreaking 3:13 and just missed qualifying for Boston in my debut, but I managed to maintain my dignity and come in with a time most amateur runners would kill for. I’m not ashamed of that.

I am ashamed of how stupidly I ran. I met my friend Pat at the start. He was shooting for a 3:40 time, and that sounded reasonable to me after taking so much time off. I wish I could’ve maintained that outlook for more than a mile. I took off hell-bent for the 3:30 group just as I hit Delaware Ave. I felt good! I figured I might just uncork a decent run! I was in for a surprise.

I caught up to the 3:30 group by mile 5. I still felt great, but that’s probably because I wasn’t paying any attention to my wildly fluctuating splits. I suddenly believed that I could catch the 3:20 group by, say, mile 12. And thus ended any chance of me recovering any semblance of a race plan.

What happened from that point forward can be summed up pretty easily. I took the fly and die approach. I ran very hard right up until about mile 18, whereupon I realized how difficult the next 8 miles were going to be. Ordinarily, I run 8 miles an hour. Last Sunday, I found myself walking and jogging just to be sure I would finish the run. I learned a hard lesson.

I crossed the finish line in agony, but I finished. I also realized that the OCD level of discipline that I brought to my first marathon is a must if I’m going to achieve that sort of success again. Am I discouraged? Not at all. I’m invigorated. I’m excited to train hard this winter and I plan on entering some spring races. Bring it on!


10
Nov 09

I Biked the Strike

I biked the SEPTA strike last week. It wasn’t the romance Philly Bicycle Coalition might have you believe. In fact, it was downright dangerous for anyone who tried to navigate the traffic-choked streets.

How about a recap? There is no safe, reliable route from anywhere north of Spring Garden to Center City. The existing bike lanes are insufficient during normal traffic and were completely overwhelmed by the strike. The number of cars and cyclists was staggering!

My traditional route to work became a warzone. I usually find my way down 17th from Spring Garden. This was nuts. 17th was a parking lot filled with uncertain angry drivers, but I had no choice. Philadelphia needs dedicated bike lanes that protect riders destined for Center City. Continue reading →


9
Nov 09

Thanks Phillies!



Helen and Charlie NLCS Game 5, originally uploaded by J T. Ramsay.

I’d like to say a belated thank you to the Phillies for making my son’s first season as a Phillies fan an amazing one. Here he is with his mom and my beautiful wife Helen at Game 5 of our triumphant series against the L.A. Dodgers.

It’s sad that they couldn’t go all the way and ensure that they’d be named among the best teams in baseball history, but the 2009 campaign gave us some great moments that we won’t forget.

I can’t wait for April 5th to get here. Bring on woeful Washington!